Being a polite gentleman is not hard work. In fact, I’m surprised more brothers don’t know how to be real gentlemen. I understand that y’all have a “game 101” class that teaches you how to holla at a hoodrat, but why can’t a real man pull your coat and teach you the etiquette it takes to draw the attraction of a real woman. More »

Many modern women have achieved wonderful things in our life times–a good education, a decent job, an apartment or home, money in the bank and ability to balance a checkbook, a car and the ability to change a flat. So don’t hate!!!

But, while these are all admirable qualities and skills to have, the skillset that enables us to do all of that is NOT the same skillset that is required to attract a quality man and manage and grow a successful adult relationship. More »

I fear for my life and safety right now as a woman and as a minority! Within the last week or so… I’ve stumbled across some disturbing research about my demographic- not once but twice… this is in addition to the mainstream news that I am forced to digest. I can’t lie, I did it to myself, I was curious about the issues affecting minorities and women because that’s who I am … I wanted to do the research… And now I’m forced to handle the brutal truth! More »

Come on ladies–don’t make me feel like the only idiot that has bent over backwards for a brother! I have too many girlfriends that tell me about their whack ass boyfriends and I’m thinking to myself, “SHE’S A FOOL”! Then all of a sudden I think back and say wait a dang minute…her story is a lot like mine! More »

Throughout history women have been used as ponds to guarantee financial security as well as a higher status for themselves, their families, and in some cases, their countries. Taught to secure the highest bidder, women were called foolish when they considered love, sentiment or attraction in their marriage proposals. There were few options either swallow their emotions and enter a meaningless marriage or become outcasts and whores in society’s eyes… More »

Waiting impatiently for the monotonous meeting to end so I could get to my classroom and greet my students, my male boss responded to a comment made by our school coach who is also male. He said, “When working with a group of women, you have to expect these things. This is just the way they are.” What? How could he have said that? If it wasn’t for the women, our school would not be operating and it wouldn’t have the highly respectable reputation that it has… More »

Recently, I’ve been happy to replace the old sex toys with a real lust shaft. I was even more happy that this particular bruiser is large…I never considered myself a “size-queen”…you know the women who refuse to have sex with a man unless he’s well-endowed but I find that size is important to me…my most recent ex had a good-sized baton and I was not willing to downgrade….matter of fact, I wanted an upgrade…so I’ve been happy with the new pipe in my life… More »

In today’s modern world, do the flowers and candy still work to impress your partner? Or has romance changed?

I hear from guy friends that it’s hard to be romantic and not be considered corny by today’s independent woman.

Women have transformed their roles within society; from the multi-tasking housewife into the multi-tasking, wife, mother, mentor, CEO, lawyer or whatever. So have women’s perception of romance changed since our characters have evolved? More »

As men, we sometimes take women for granted. So in celebration of Women’s History Month, I want to share my thoughts on a woman that I looked up to growing up; a who’s woman superceded every expectation that I had in the world; a women “Sweeter than cotton candy, stronger than grandpa’s brandy.” More »

I’d like to take a moment to pose a question. What are the chances that the Republicans stoop as low as to force the double talk express into picking a “BUSHY-like” Condoleezza Rice to be it’s Vice President? Think about it for a minute. She’s black and last time I checked, a woman. Because of this, she could possibly offset the Obama machine, which has been plowing through Hill-Dog like… well, like Bill used to. More »